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Sok Lay
Sok Lay
Hello & welcome!

It’s Sok here.

I’m glad you are here as I’ve lot of things to share with you about new motherhood.

Since becoming a mum about 9 months ago, I realised how tough it is to be in the coolest hood in town! It wasn’t easy for me at the beginning and I still muddling my way through, which I’m sure you can totally relate!

But, it is for this reason that makes motherhood journey amazing because I have learnt how to make magic happen (and I don’t even have to go to Hogwarts to learn it!).

Although most of the time, it turns out to be a fail whenever I tried to perform the so-called magic. It’s not fun going through failures, but it is in those moments that I discovered more about myself and evolve into a better person.

Hence, I thought it’d be great to share with you my motherhood stories which as you guessed it, mostly consist of failures, mistakes and struggles (click here to read more About this blog).

I know that when you are struggling, the last thing you want to read about is some mummy who thinks they know it all. I also know how lonely it can be to a new mum and feeling like no one cares about (although this is so not true!!) as everyone is so obsessed about your baby. So I hope through my story, you will know that at least someone out there genuinely cares about you! 

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By the way, here are some articles that I think you may enjoy:
A personal reflection by a first-time mum.

10 challenges an expectant mother never expects. Number 4 is unbelievable.

I used to think baby likes to sleep a lot. And that, I will have plenty of time to myself ...
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Photo by Corey Blaz on Unsplash

5 Valuable Lessons I Learned from Sleep School

I cringe every time my baby cries. The sound of my little girl crying and the sight of her teary ...
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River of Life - Photo Credit: Pexel

Cherish the Un-Cherish-Able

Like a pro, my baby fought sleep again. It was a disaster recurring again at our residence. Here we go ...
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Do You Have a Great Plan for Yourself?

Everything happens for a reason. Really? I always subscribe to the notion that things are meant to be as they ...
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Giving In

Have you ever surrender to sleep deprivation? I have. My body feels heavy as I heard the screeching noise ringing ...
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A closet full of clothes. Photo Credit - Unsplash

How to deal with unsolicited advice in motherhood.

After I gave birth, I found that everyone suddenly becomes interested in how I live my life. Initially, I felt ...
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Photo Credit - Unsplash

How to increase the Quality of your Decision-Making in Motherhood.

Have you had self-doubt since becoming a mother?   Do you often re-evaluate your decisions because you felt like they ...
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My Story

Since becoming a mother for the first time, I realised how motherhood is not really an easy gig to pull ...
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Photo Credit - Bob Clark (Pexels)

The Art of Deliberate & Skilful Spending

Believe it or not, Spending is an art. You might be thinking I'm a spendthrift to make such statement. You ...
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The perfectionist’s guide to surviving motherhood

Motherhood is tough. It is even tougher if you are a perfectionist. I never thought I was suffering from perfectionism ...
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